Hi Lynette, Your question,"Do you get to see family members and can you remember your time on earth"
The first part of your question,
When your deceased relative needs to connect with your energy they will have the free will to make that impression in your consciousnesses, but not like meeting you at the shopping center
Try thinking of someone while you are in a relaxed state of mind you will be able to create a connection which seems like a fantasy story
Your second question: can you remember your time on earth"
Your time in the material world is a series of events and is an experience of your learning values this time round,Your personality is derived from your many lifetimes of experience and if you want to have another lifetime in the material world you will have a recall partial memory to assist you on your new adventure
I hope this will help you to realize that you become what you think about
Love & Peace