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My boyfriend's family hates me.

The night before last night I had a dream that my boyfriend's family was having a party so I went to his house. Everyone in his family was there. I am really shy so I didn't talk to any of them. I guess they got mad and ended up hating me. He also had an Uncle Peter but he was really Casper the Ghost. And everyone and movie ratings on them like R and PG and that was the way I was supposed to tell their age. I later went and took a bath in his Mom's bedroom. lol weird.

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Re: My boyfriend's family hates me.

Jessica,

The dream may describe noticing (unconsciously) a difference between your preference for observation, to not participate in social exchange due to shyness, and expectations of his family to be social and participate with family to fit in. Perhaps some starting point for a new (to you) experience for you in social relations with others. Perhaps shyness is a result of fear in dealing with others with consideration and avoiding giving offence. This could be similar to your or his mother’s personality aspect of shyness or that you rely on his mother to ease the social exchange with others.

Look forward to your thoughts on the dream and interpretation.

Kind regards,
Kathy

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Re: My boyfriend's family hates me.

Hmm this still doesn't really make since to me...

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Re: My boyfriend's family hates me.

My apologies Jessica - I was unclear.

Do you fear your boyfriends family won't like you, so you don't talk or socialize much with them because you're afraid of offending them in some way? The movie age ratings would suggest a question of appropriate behaviour (your behaviour to them or their behaviour toward you). Probably you want them to like you, since they are your bf's family :) but maybe you're not sure how to act around them. And you take his mother's style as your own so you fit in? That's what the dream message SEEMS to be, but could be wrong...

Many thanks,
Kathy

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Re: My boyfriend's family hates me.

I am scared that they won't like me because it has happened with another boyfriend before. I was so quiet that they thought I was stuck up so they ended up not liking me. I really just don't know what to say to them.
Thanks for the help.

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