in the dream,


it started out with me at a grocery store.


as i went in, i saw the person i was looking for.


as i was watching her, i saw that she was buying groceries.


however, i noticed that she was only able to buy a VERY small amount of groceries.


just barely enough it seemed.


i felt pity for her.


i went outside the store and waited for her to come out...


as she came out, i followed behind her...i made sure she didn’t see me.


as she walked through the parking lot...she was approached by a group of people...possibly friends of hers.


they all then departed and she continued on to her car...


as she got to her car...i was standing right behind her now...


i noticed something very distinct about her appearance.


her hair was black, her jacket...a long jacket...was black...and her CAR was black...


at first, i thought the car was MINE...because my car is also that color...but then i saw that the design of her car was a little different than mine.


at this point... she turned around...however, i hid from her...i hid behind some other cars.


she never saw me.

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Daniel,
My best answer to the 'her' in your dream is she is you and your emotions. She is your Animus.

My sense is you are either not receiving the 'emotional' nutrition in life you need and/or you are not able to give 'emotional nutrition' to others {groceries}. The pity you feel in the dream may be self pity. It may be an emotion that is unconsciously taking control, something that is growing. It may involve an inability to show emotions. You may be hiding certain emotions, or it may be the inability to show them.

Jerry

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Daniel,
Another thought. The problem may stem from the fact you did not receive enough love and emotional nutrition in your life and because of that you have an inability to provide love and emotions to others. Did your childhood lack proper love and 'emotional nutrition'? The dream may be addressing personality traits 'handed' down from your own early life experiences.

Jerry

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