Hi Jerry
and thank you for your most insightful response. All the things you are mentioning may well be very true. Over the past few days I was forced to think about all those things, and actually some of them were themes that appeared in my conversation with my friend as well. I generally lack the talent of adapting easily to changes (especially sudden ones) and the whole argument with him is somehow a result of this weakness of mine. Thanks very much for pointing these out. How to deal with such fundamental problems is another story altogether though... :) It is a very painful procedure for me and I suppose the pain in the dream is pointing to this.
Thanks again, I really appreciate your help!
Kassandra

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Kassandra,
Realizing what you have from examining this dream tells you a lot about yourself. That is a positive thing. If you don't know, or realize, you can't resolve or solve the emotional conflicts. Dreams help resolve our emotional conflicts by making us a ware of our true condition, our true feelings, our true selves.

Jerry