dear Jerry

I was planing on writing you how i think that you have explained me all about the dream.... but - there he was again in my dreams... the scenario is different. i was supposed to work on a case and to go to court in a different city. and i saw him looking at those files. next scene i was in front of the building (not familiar one) and thinking about my trip and the case. and there he came with his car, and he told me to enter. so i did. and we started talking about whatever... like a couple ! and he was taking me to see the sunset from a beach view. and then we arrived at the beach view, and watched the sunset.

I must admit, although it all sounds like a beauitiful idea, i am stressed over these dreams...

can them be related to reality? like - could it be an indication tha there could be something going on between me and him in real life? do i have to think now about if there is emotions beyween us...?

and believe me = i am serious when it comes to dreams so i am not inventing this stup up = in fact i am starting to her worried...

help ...


thank you

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Fifi,
First let me say that all dreams are related to 'your' reality. Your dreams are about you and your emotions. The only difference between your dreams and your waking life is dreams do not possess a bias to the truth. The ego will perceive things with a bias, try to make things fit as you wish them to. Dreams show things as they actually are. Dreams are much like someone following you around with a video camera and filming everything you do. Your waking self may think something was one way when the camera shows differently, as it as it really is, which is often different than you thought.

Your Dream
The beginning of the dream may be addressing looking at the situation involving your boss in a different light. The court in a different city is a different way for to judge things differently. You may be looking at him with a different view {files}. But your boss may not be an actual person but the 'authoritative' side of your personality. In that case there would be something about your boss you identify with. It could very well be about both but likely one being the primary focus of the dream. These are unconscious motivations and there could be things you have yet to realize.

Something different is driving your thoughts about the boss {assuming it is a real person-it could be about your own 'inner boss'}. The building is you and there is something unfamiliar being looked at {by your unconscious}. Cars are symbolic of what is 'driving' you. You are giving in to obedience {you get in the car he is driving}. The dialog is with yourself. There are a 'couple' of things being discussed. This would fit with the two applications of the boss. The real person as well as your inner boss.

Before i address the 'beach scene' i will comment on the boss applications. You have stated in an earlier post that your real boss is 'sorta' of a family friend. is there any pressure or encouragement from family concerning any aspect of your job or your relationship with your boss? There may be an issue of whether you are the 'boss' of your own self {the second application of the inner boss}. I don't this to be a fact so i will put it out for your consideration. It could explain both aspects of the boss if true.

The sunset view at the beach. Something I am familiar with living on the East coast of Florida. Everything will be beautiful if you 'go with the boss'. Beaches boarder the ocean or seas {or Great Lakes}. It is often symbolic of the meeting of conscious and unconscious {the ocean symbolizes the unconscious}. What would be a 'great' sunset is if you are able/capable of bringing the unconscious motivations {being pressured or encouraged} into focus and think for yourself and make a correct decision {you will be the boss}. I am getting the sense there may be something along this line being addressed in the dreams.

Your added info may be important. You ask if there could be something going on between you and your boss that you do not realize. I don't that is the intent of the dream. Ask yourself with great examination, are you truly interested in your boss romantically, or in a way other than he just being your boss? If the answer is no {as you have stated previously} then there may be outside pressures being put on you {he is a friend of the family}. Or, suggestions if you become 'friendly' with him that would be a benefit for you. It doesn't mean you have to be romantically involved but just friends.

Finally. I wouldn't worry about these dreams as far as them being 'strange' going on in your mind. Dreams are therapeutic in they help you resolve emotional conflicts. Obviously there is a conflict but not so important you should overly worry about it. The task is to determine what the dreams are trying to communicate and then take that and work it out. Unconsciously your dreams are attempting to work through these issues {you are thinking about the conflicts in your dreams except they are in a coded/symbolic language}. The unconscious dream is also attempting to 'inform' your conscious mind what the real issues are. It is obvious you are confused about your relationship with your boss, and probably about your own inner boss {are you going to make the decisions or let others push you to do something different?}. Think about these things and determine what fits with the way you really feel. This is the way you will resolve the dreams about your boss.

Jerry

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