Thank you Jerry.I hope I didn't hijack this thread so I will save all replies for mine.

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hi Jamal,
with synchronicity I had just posted a new dream, right before your post _ I have not posted anything for ages; and I had to re-re-read my initial dream as I didn't think it was mine / couldn't remember it !!

So I noticed I posted it in earlyish 2013 - and as I reflect on 2013 it could be termed the year of the earthquake - or as I had been calling it "The Year of the Unexpected".
My wife and I had our first child, and the birth and week after were almost life threatening to both mother and babe.
There was an 'explosion' at work, and between my and my 'colleagues' I ended up leaving. We move out of the town, and back to our home area. The house is yet to sell, and we have been almost wrecked financially. We have moved again, out of the country - as relief and then there was a job !
So as I started , , , in retrospect I missed the signs of the trouble early on; and if I had understood what was happening (realising that certain of my character feature had constellated with the unconscious personality features of my ex-colleagues, I could have acted pre-emptively (probably still leaving but in a better way, and on superficially better terms, and with less damage to us).

So - perhaps scan what is happening in your life ??? and if you have any intuitive hits that somethign is afoot , ,, consider "is there anything I can do?"

all the best, Justin

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Justin

I appreciate your honesty and advice. I hate to say this, sort of after the fact, however, I feel there are more parallels. When my wife and I moved, we were, at least we felt very betrayed by friends, friends who a week before we left were sharing everything with us, and now we are completely cut out of their lives. I can only say that, although it is only a part of my experience. It is one of those things where I felt, is my perception of friendship, life and people all wrong? I came from the desert you know? The place where I stood alone and made myself self sufficient. Now I feel like I need to go back again. I can't explain it in words.

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Jamal,
this sounds like you are feeling betrayal ? (or if not, can you describe to yourself in one word the sense of what you are feeling - this may take some distillation, and time, and may come to you when you are dong something else)
then - reflecting on Jerry's post - is there an episode in your childhood when you felt something similar ?? and if so, again, what are the simiilarities ?

all the best
Justin

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