96000

hey guys...

.my mom saw a dream in which there is me happily running , and saying i have won 96000 prize bond... .not to mention that i am currently in an over possessive relation...and my boyfriend was also in this dream saying i have a right on this prize....

i think these digits are about my life and relation ....i was trapped in the abusive relation with the same guy in dream...this dream came like about 6 to 7 months back to my mom...its been like 2 months that i realized that i was in abusive relationship ,,,i was spinning and spinning in this circle of torture. for almost 2 years..and was powerless and so numb to know what was happening to me ,,,as he abused me verbally emotionally and sexually........anyways...now the current scenario is ....i am not marrying him as i was about to....because i realized that he is an abuser.....and trust me i am so happy now and seeing my future and what not for finally breaking the cycle of abuse.....now i am just one step away from running far far away from him....and i dnt think im gonna tell him this...he is going to be more dramatic...

so few days back this dream popped into my head that my mom told me she saw me like this..and she was also clueless about it...while back those days i was spinning hard in an abusive days:I...which my mom dnt know still uptil now...but anyways...this dream i know this is somehow related to my life and relation with this guy...as this dream came back 6 to 7 months and now i am about to be free of miserable miserable relationship....with him it was like i was trapped ,,,like cutoff from outer world... i know this dream is about my relation...i just need to know from others too...

i was happy and these digits 96000 means something ....i just know

i remember when for the first time my mom told me this dream 6 to 7 months back or even more i guess dont remember the exact ...so at that time we decipher it and thought it is about my relation with him. that we gonna be together and what not...i didnt knew i was in a destructive relation at that time...as i was spinning and abusive incidents were on daily basis ...i was going through so much pain..i dont know how i got stuck in this relation and was under his control but i used to argue almost everyday that why and what is happening...you know what happens in abusive relationship...

so with the passage of time i started gain my power back and started to raise my voice and pushing him away...so now 2 to three months back i full of torture and clueless about what exactly happened started to read about possessiveness and which further lead me to abusive relationships and then i read from there ,so much about it and agreed that, wow exactly this was happening to me..seriously i didnt knew there is something like abusement existed...i have no idea of trait and characteristics of abuser..although i did know whatever was happening was not right but i was powerless and tortured..hell of a new horrible experience i had uffff....

.so from that day i never top reading and join different love forums to discuss my story and scenarios...and all of them said run as fast as you can nobody owns you....so thats where i started to buckle myself hard and i recognized his pattern...
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now i am almost at the edge of leaving him..you know i was about to marry him but it didnt happened somehow it was getting delayed because i was not agreeing and now i understand that even that delayed meant something...it was not right to marry him..what if i would have agreed before even knowing what was it...:o....i was doomed for sure....

.and then suddenly one day this dream popped into my head and i was like whattt..seeing the current situation i am free from miserable miserable sex slavery and what not....i am happy although going through survivor guilt syndrome ...see i read it all to comfort me....but still its not easy and i am struggling to survive ...but i am almost free from hell torture....yayy.

sorry for this too long story ...but i think i need to tell you to able to decipher my dream and tell me if i am not wrong that it was definitely about my life and this relation..also tell me the meaning of dream........mentioning it again i was happy in that dream...

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Maxy,
I'll provide an analysis/interpretation in the morning. I do need to ask which dream was yours and which was your mother's? If you will clarify your exact dream and then hers I will be better to understand their intent and meaning. Your dreams are about your emotional life and your mother's dream about you would be in relationship to you but still primarily about her emotional life.

Do you share a lot in common?

The numbers do have meaning. The number 9 and 6 are very diffident and significant numbers with 'metaphysical' properties. Nine especially is a'prime' number and most significant.

Jerry

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there is only one dream...and thats by my mother..i didnt have any...i was saying that now i realized what that dream was about 7 8 months back i didnt know what was it and and i was dreaming my life with him ...u know victim thing...but now i see i m totally in different direction and trust me im happy so happy to see my life ahead away from this heartless creature..he tortured me a lot on daily basis...uff


so the dream was about me very happy saying i won 96000 prize bond....and besides me sitting my boyfriend saying i have right on this prize...and me and my boyfriend were at his house....thats it...this what my mom saw...she said you seems very happy just the way in real when your too happy just like that..

telling you more this guy is our family guy...his and our family has strong trust bonding...yup hell...his brothers and sisters and mine grew up together...he is also very best buddy of my brother...yup i know i have been abused by the most trustable person on earth...my whole family trust him like hell...we were about to get married and it is even announced in our families...:O...so see nobody knows his actual face...i just cannot believe he did horrible horrible things with me..

anyways..purpose of telling you is you need to know my situation and him too and my family too who still dont know what i been through...and they still thinks he is the most decent perfect mature guy ever...which he obviously fooled us all right from the start...we spend our childhood together u know:I...


so this dream came to my mom 6 to seven months back....at that time i translate it differently....but looking at my recent scenario i now know just know that it was about me and him...im sure of it...because i cant believe what i been through and was stuck ...so this is how it is...i have been through hell...i never though of it coming from the most trustable person or i would say animal....

this dream was predicting i know about me getting out of this misery back when it came...but nobody knows..i didn t know either .because just like everybody else who is in abusive relationship i didnt know that i was in it...and getting out of it seems like a miracle...and seems like been in this relation with him was some kind of trials for me in this world.....you know i am talking in a religious matter....trials...you know after trials you are awarded too:)....although it was hell...ahh..so this is what i think....

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Maxy,
Not much to go on to give an interpretation. Because it was your mother's dream about you it would involve her emotional desires/interest in relationship to you. Her dreams are about her emotional self and a dream about you would be about her interest/desires about you. There must be associations to your experience that she identifies with {perhaps even unconsciously} and that would be a reason for this type dream. The number 96{000} could be archetypal properties. That may suggest common threads in both your and her life. The number itself, 9 and 6, could have archetypal associations {the number 9 and common threads} but with personal associations {the number 6 and personal associations}.

The number 96000 may have personal associations but as for the metaphysical properties, and its relationship to the dream, the number would represent wholeness of body, mind and spirit. The number 9 represents the soul {as a metaphysical property} and the number 6 would represent wholeness of the body. But the soul must be healed before the body can be. Soul in Greek mythology translates to psyche. Psyche is the psychology. I sense your mother had desires for you to have a whole and happy life but there may have been doubts about that possibility due to your psychological condition {letting your emotions take control and having a relationship with the guy in the first place}.

Being your mother's dream, and the inclusion of the number 96{000} in it, there may be personal associations in her life that relate to your experiences. Has she had a bad relationship similar to the one you went through? I such a case her dream may have taken her personal experience {and wisdom} and used that as a message about your relationship. And if you are happy as you say you are then she too may have lived the same experience.

Other than that, with so little to go on about the actual dream, this is the best I can do as an analysis. If your mother remembers the dream and you can post that I would be better able to tell you more.

Jerry

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hey ....


the dream was about me very happy , saying i won 96000 prize bond....and besides me sitting my boyfriend saying i have right on this prize...and me and my boyfriend were at his house....thats it...this what my mom saw...she said you seems very happy just the way in real when your too happy just like that....

my mom says he (my boyfriend)..was sitting like as if he some kind of king...which i would rather understand obviously....that mom couldnt understand his gesture and attitude in dream ...i know its more than like a boss which she is saying like a king...as he always act like whose the boss....control freak he is...anyways....and i was so happy running saying i won 96000 prize bond and my boyfriend saying i have a right on this prize....so see not like a king like my owner my boss....who has every right on me on my things.... so thats it....

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Maxey,
Again your mother's dream is how she feels/felt when she had the dream. Look at the dream language and match it to her actual waking life emotions/feelings and you will understand the dream. I an having difficulty in understanding the exact wording of the dream and how it played out. If you were in the dream it would point to how she fells/felt about you. Perhaps winning the prize is what she wishes for, you to win in relationships in your life.

Jerry

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