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Sexual dreams repeated

Hi, for the past year I keep on having sexual dreams about this guy I know. I've had them when I was single and even after I got into relationship, I still kept on sometimes dreaming about this other guy. I'm sexually attracted to him in real life however nothing of this sorts happened between us. The dreams are sometimes more sexual sometimes just implication. They are also sometimes quite passionate and heated and other times more sensual and it is usually me initiating the sexual contact in some way. There always seems to be a lot of desire on my part and he just usually seems to be just going with it however we never get to the sex part. Sometimes right before the actual intercourse part the dream just completely changes, other times something happens so we don't get to it and other times I wake up right before it. I'm quite confused to the meaning of them as I heard most sexual dreams actually have nothing to do with sex.

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Re: Sexual dreams repeated

Alice,
Your dream most likely has do with more than just the sexual attraction with this guy. It could be something more to do with him that is attractive or/and he could represent a masculine aspect about yourself with the guy representing something about yourself that is attractive and needs to be 'united' {sex is bringing two opposites together}. I'll give your dream a thorough look on Wednesday and some contemplation in the meantime and see what comes to mind that may reveal the 'implications'. Is there an aspect about your life where parts of you goes all out but other times when you don't put your whole self into doing it? Take the actions to do with sex in the dream and see if they would fit somewhere else in your life.

Jerry



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Re: Sexual dreams repeated

Hi
I know there are times when I do go all out but there are times I can get disencouraged or fear it's not gonna turn out the way I want to and stop from trying or doing anything but I can't think of any specific time atm. Might be to do with my lack of confidence or fear of rejection at times if it matters.

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Re: Sexual dreams repeated

Alice,

The attraction to this other guy may have a bearing on the dream but my sense is he symbolizes a masculine/animus aspect within your psyche. The sexual attraction would be the waking life attraction you feel but he could represent a union of opposites which leads to wholeness and balance in your personality. That could have to do with your lack of confidence and/or fear of rejection. Those aspects of your personality are in conflict creating a psychological imbalance which needs a 'masculine' effort to resolve {your masculine qualities need development}. The implication would be this aspect, the inner conflict you have with personal qualities. The dream would be addressing other outer conscious experiences {attraction to this guy} as well as unconscious inner emotional conflicts {lack of confidence/fear of rejection. Your masculine qualities are weak when it comes to these issues.
Note: All dreams, all dream images have at least two meanings/applications. Often one points toward recent conscious experiences while another points to inner psychological aspects as I have described.

The part about your desire for him but his lack of interest could point to the inner aspects {and possibly the real life experiences if he does show a lack of interest}. Again 'he' would represent your animus. When you get to the sex part that may point to your fear of rejection. The fact the dream completely changes could be statement about your sexual desires and fear of rejection but changes to focus on the underlying reasons for those fears. To understand the reasons would require a deeper inspection of your psyche. Most likely they stem from early life experiences/influences, childhood environment and parental support.

In summary I do believe the dream is addressing the deeper issues to do with your fears and lack of confidence. The side issue would be the guy you are attracted to but to resolve both issues would require a resolution of the inner conflict first. If you have dreams that feature a childhood or children then post it. Usually those type dreams are focusing on the reasons for personality traits and issues in later life.

Jerry



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