Yes spot on with both dreams.

I haven't broken up with my boyfriend but he is acting differently towards me and won't communicate. He says he is in love with me and does want a commitment but just wants us to have fun which confuses me, he forbids me talking about anything deep so this is where the rejection comes in. There is bitterness as I need a deep and meaningful relationship, I am naturally deep and he is the joker that wants a laugh so I guess I feel bitter in the fact that he wants me to except him for being him but he won't except me. And you are right I am trying not to have these emotions, I keep telling myself to lighten up and not analyze too much. And yes it does stem from childhood where I was severely bullied. Thank you so much for your feed back, I will learn from this and hopefully have a happier relationship and a happier me. xx

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Gemma,
Thanks for the response. Doesn't matter whether you have actually broken up with him. The emotional energies are the same {as you recognized}. What is probably most important are the unconscious energies that motivate your personality and any fears you have of rejection. Those energies would be deep set in the unconscious and without knowing it have a lot of control over your actions. The fears are likely rooted in childhood experiences/influences. It is those unconscious aspects you will want to focus the most and make adjustments where necessary. Otherwise the fears will continue to have an influence.

Jerry

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Hello

Although I have moved on in life and forgiven the people in my past I have often through out the years told myself to seek counselling just to understand why these things happened and how I dealt with it as a child. I have finished my counselling sessions and decided it wasn't right for me so I am going to book myself into a health retreat next year when I can afford it. Two of the therapy's they offer are NLP and inner child healing. I know all will be good in the end because I am good person with good intentions.

Thank you very much, you have been of valuable help. xx

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