Anonymous,
I sense the dream is addressing an attitude to do with self image and age. Also to do with a need to rid yourself of frustrations in your life. A need for renewed experiences {or perhaps for the first time} that would be produce elated/euphoric feelings. These are 'visiting' thoughts but may be getting stronger.

This dream may have to do with desires and frustration to do with relationships {possibly strong sensual temptations symbolized by man with ripped jeans}. These are attitudes stroked by unconscious energies {I'll address that next} that may cause you to have thoughts of temptations. If you are in a relationship it may be lacking in certain qualities to do with sensuality and is fulfillment.

The unconscious energies would point to influences from previous experiences and/or from early life. Feelings of not being fulfilled may have to do with childhood influences that 'push' you toward such temptations {example-relationship between parents that lacked certain qualities that left an impression on your psyche}. If true such a relationship may produce desires not to be in the same type relationship.

The number 4 is a symbol for wholeness and two 4s may point for a need for wholeness/fulfillment on a conscious levels as well as an unconscious level {associated with early life experiences/influences}. I sense the dream is pointing to strong temptations/desires that would seemingly provide feelings of fulfillment on a conscious level. The self image factor may have to do with your age and a need to have someone on the same level {he was also 44} who bring about the fulfillment in life you seek.

Jerry

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