thanks gerry again for working on my dream in such detail, this was in fact tthe same dream, i wasnt very clear , what i meant was that both this and the tysk monument dream were on the same night.

I am facing a big change. I have struggled with my mother in law for approval for years and i have always let it go in the past because i was scared of her temper. But now i am trying to decide if its best to speak up and try to change things. She criticizes me. I realise she needs help and wont accept me till she has a better relationship with my husband. Will she take it the way i hope or will it make things worse? I do have to consider the impact of this on my children if it makes it worse. This is not something that comes naturally to me. I dont like conflict, i have always tried to smooth things over in the past as the cost of my own emotions but ive had enough. She presses buttons relating to my own mother and wanting her to love me when i was a child. So to try and move into a space where i no longer care if she loves me or not is a big change for me. I know i need to protect myself from her criticism. In the dream i also remember feeling bad about the house when i realised the name of the street.

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