Merkito,
I need to revise my interpretation of the dream title. I interpreted the word dessert as desert.

There are rejected aspects about yourself that you need to recognize and resolve. You are working on the issues but have yet to discover/resolve the primary issue. It seems to be related to an 'indulgence' activity. The issue looks to be either related to food or sex. It is a substitute for emotional nourishment that is lacking in your life. 'Excuses' seem to be a part of the equation also. That may be an inner aspect that is used to support the indulgence. Kissing the girlfriend would represent embracing the rejected emotional aspects which is the primary problem. This is an unconscious thing, the unconscious energies that promote your conscious indulgence.

But there is a second pattern in the dream that points to your 'working on the 'machinery' that is unconsciously generated. The ego doesn't want this {the ego is selfish, caring for the physical desires and never wanting to give in to what is best for the psyche}. But to reach wholeness {11/43=432 equals 9 which is the symbolic number for wholeness} you have to spend the needed time to 'investigate' the unconscious aspects as well as the conscious actions. But even in your attempts to resolve the issue there is a 'push back',a reluctance to do so. That may be because the 'indulgence' is so strong and the unconscious energies are as well. Only you can know what the indulgences are. Only you can resolve the inner issues that motivate your conscious actions.

The first part of the dream is focused on your working to resolve emotional issues in your life. But the primary issues have yet to be confronted and resolved. You are making positive gains but have not yet recognized all of the issues.

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Jerry

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M. Gifford thank you for your analysis. I wrote a response but got filtered by the antispam twice. I just wanted to say that your analysis is very accurate and I'm grateful for it. I hope this message will make it :)

Best regards,
Merkito

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