Lorraine,
I am posting the amplification of the images/actions/symbols from your two dreams and will let you put the pieces together. I think it is obvious {to you at least} to what the dream message is in both. They should fit your life.
Amplifcation of Images/Actions/Symbols
Title: dream of not buying earrings at auction
-not buying earrings-not receiving valued attention and affection
-at an auction-issues and feelings of being undervalued
Note: beyond naming the general out life of the dream, there may have been a recent personal experience where you felt your ideas/or feelings were not appreciated/considered
First Dream
Dream Content
-I was at an auction house-feeling undervalued/under appreciated/may point to issues of self esteem
-most desirable pair of earrings being sold-a desire/need for acceptance and affection from parents {pair} which are in adult life motivators for personality traits
-were so trendy-trend/fashioned of emotional energies
-earrings were yellow- tarnished psyche/personality
-with design of a man's face-blueprint for masculine aspects/experiences affecting ego self
-was a long gold stem-extended support system related to values/power
-hanging from each earring-coming from each parent
-was encouraged to buy it by black guy-issues of trust and acceptance assertive in the unconscious
-though I had money-having issues of self worth/values
-to purchase it-to attain fulfillment
-I declined-rejection {issues of self worth to attain fulfillment rejected}
-walked out of auction house-
-a little sad but happy wth decision-compensating how you really feel/need in resolving inner issues
-couldn't decide which way to turn-uncertainity if life's direction
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Second Dream
Dream Content
-watching tv soap opera/me acting out the scenes- life being like a soap opera
-looked like a different character-affects on personality
-knew I was playing scenes out because of emotions of character- conscious actions related to emotional energies
-the actress (me)-playing a role/not your true self
-trying to grab her hair-clutching to developed attitudes
-so they cut off her long ponytail-persons responsible for severed causal attitudes
-hair color dark brown or black-cause of negative attitudes
-group of young women-various aspects of her personality
-eventually grabs her-taking control
-as she tries to run in someone's front yard-waking conscious actions/personality aspects
-they cut off her hair-severed attitudes
-starts crying uncontrollably-unable to control emotions
-trying to get attention-seeking affection and attention
-from others-seeking other sources in receiving attention
-no one hears or responds-not finding fulfillment
-looks down at her dog without a head-unclear thinking/attention on loyalty, generosity, protection, and fidelity