I thought I added this additional information, but I suppose the post didn't go through. I don't know if makes a difference, but the man in this dream was either half asleep of asleep (passive aspect)???

I have to say this is an amazing analysis or EXACTLY what happened with the man in this dream. The man in my dream and I may like each other (intimacy). I think he's used to being in charge or control at his office, but he commented that I was trying to control things or tell him what to do to make things perfect. This made me feel mad or challenged because he didn't really listen to how important these things were to me so I needed to point them out. However, I don't always act this way. It's just when something is important and will be overlooked unless the person takes it seriously.

In my childhood, there was extreme obedience to my controlling father figure. The man I knew in bed wouldn't relate to my father, or maybe that's why he came across as more passive as I mentioned earlier??? Although he takes charge in his office, I don't find him controlling.

Missy,
Although the recent experience you noted with the man who you are interested {the intimacy} is being addressed in the dream the primary focus is more likely the relationship with your father and issues from that relationship. The way you acted with in the recent experience would likely be related to the father relationship and your personality traits developed during those foundational years. Dreams deal with emotional energies that are in conflict or conflicting {mostly negative in dreams but can be positive} with the intent to help resolve the issues. Dreams are nature's tool to help heal and protect the psych{ology} just as the immune system is to the body. To get to the core issue would require more insights to your life.

Jerry

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