Katherine,
You are probably going through a transformation in your life. It very well be a spiritual transformation or one of identity that gives more emphasis to the spiritual, and perhaps creative aspect, and less on the ego-centered self. What is happening is a process of annihilating the ego, something that is required for a succesful transformation. But the ego mind resists, does not want to give up control. There is pain in the transformation but only when the ego self is give room to protest.
Joseph Campbell speaks of the necessary annihilation of the hero in myth. It is a slow and often painstaking procedure. But when the transformation is complete, the mummified body releases the spirit and new life is given, a whole new world of adventure.
Look at your life and see what transformation is taking place. If it is spiritual then that will be obvious. If it involves something else, something to do with the feminine aspect, then it may be less evident consciously. Let me know your thoughts and we can expand on my interpretation.
Gerard
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Steve does have a good point about the personal aspect of possible interpretation. It could be a devouring mother. But I also see the possibility of it being some other person in your personal life, another woman. The high Priestess would be a projection you put on this other person.
I see a conflict somewhere in your life. Of course a waking conflict experience causes an inner turmoil also, emotional conflict. Whereas there could be this other person causing conflict in your waking life that the dream is directed at, the inner conflict must be looked at also. In life we solve, live with, or run away from the conflicts, but we don't always settle the inner emotional conflict, and residual damage.
When I interpret dreams I always look for the two interpretations in the dream. One is about the inner self, the inner conflicts of emotions, and the other the actual waking experience dealing with life. I don't always try to intrepret the dream on a personal level, I just don't enough about the dreamer. The inner conflict more readily comes through when I look at dreams. This is the intuitive seeing combined with Jung's approach to dreams.
If I am correct with the inner intrepretation, a couple questions to dreamer usually gets to the actual personal interpretation the dream was trying to communicate. But sometimes the deeper inner conflict remains unless it is dealt with it properly. Of course personality has much to do with it also. Some people deal emotionally very well under the hardest circumstances. Others 'wither' at the first sign of conflict. Having an understanding of Jung's {and Freud, Adler, others} personality theories is most important.
I think most often an inner interpretation of the dream will be enough to stimulate the dreamer's own wisdom to recognize the waking experience the dream is addressing. Sometimes not.
The more you know about the dreamer the better it is to determine what the dream is about, on the personal level {that's a given}. I am a people person, a lot of first hand experience with people, so I have that learned experience. And I am able to intuitively recognize aspects about a person when I physically meet them. My intuitive self is more capable of recognizing the deeper inner conflict {if there is any 'deeper' conflict} when looking at dreams. There are just too many possibilities to feel comfortable about giving a definite personal interpretation. Unless it involves loved ones, personal relationships and/or traumas {including fear}. There are always other possibilities.
Look at Kim's dream to see her experience with different interpretations of her dream. The other interpretations often tried to address the personal aspect, giving a definite interpretation to a waking experience. You have to interpret what is there, following Jung, and let the intuitive self determine what it can without the thinking mind interfering with the process.
I would like to hear some feedback about my comments, these and others I make from time to time. Dialog will help all of us learn more about the dream, and let others share what we all know. This version of Dream Forum is less than two and a half months old and there is a growing number of new members every day {over 900 in 2 1/2 months}. A lot of people read the dream posts. The better we are at giving interpretions to dreams, the more benefit to those visitors to the forum. A desired purpose of MDS is to share the knowledge, the wisdom, the experiences, the insights, so others will benefit.
Gerard
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Katherine,
Perhaps it is your mother that has bested you in your dream, having at one time placed you in a mummified state. Perhaps moving near your sister has brought back those consuming attitudes your mother possessed over you. The transformation would be a reversal to the former self {being closer to your sister, and thus your mother}.
What you have to do is be that Egyptian Priestess, your higher self. She sits across from you, she is still present. She has the power to get you through these times. The battle of wills are those within you. She is the confident self but remians across from you as long as you let the old attitudes creap back into your life.
Does this make sense?
Gerard 
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I've been exploring that concept and my reaction to my sister's behavior and I feel that you're correct. Part of my reaction is because the feelings of helplessness I had for so long with my mother are being stirred up as well as my dread of these types of confrontations. It is interesting that I only experience these feelings with both these women as I have no problem asserting myself with others. In fact, I've been working to separate the old feelings regarding my mother's behavior from those of this recent issue with my sister because I feel that they should be kept separate(my sister isn't responsible for my mother's previous behavior, only her own) and perhaps I should recognize that while the incidents are separate they are rooted in the same patterns of interaction with these two women who are very similar. It's also true, now that I think about it, that I have conflicting feelings regarding what I would say or do if my sister were not my family and how I perceive I must act given that she is.
Yes, what you say makes total sense! Thank you!
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