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he is watching me

dear dream person
I keep having these dreams. I would go to sleep and someone would be talking to me a man. He is wispering things to me but its as if it is a different language. Than I wake up and he is standing over my shoulder there in my room. He looks like he is going to harm be but he doesnt. What is going on

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Re: he is watching me

Hi

It sounds like you are meeting your anima - the male side of your psyche, in your dreams. He stands over your shoulder, as he is waiting to be integrated and possibly the issue appears to 'weigh' on your shoulders at the moment - ie - it needs attention.
You are apprehensive about meeting this side of your in your psyche - there is a perceived threat - but he doesn't harm you - there is nothing to fear about this process. I would imagine that if you face this figure without fear and with acceptance, your journey of self development and personal growth will develop and rather than appearing as someone looking over your shoulder, perceived as a threat to you, your anima will appear in lots of different ways as a helpful male figure - who will enable you to gain insights and move onto the goal of individuation - the male and female sides (anima and animus) meeting and uniting in harmony to develop a fuller, more whole self.

From your age - this initial recognition of another side to you and other aspects to integrate is completely normal - so relax and enjoy the insights, confidence and understadning this process can bring.
Good luck

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