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                                               Brother Larry Ritchey                      " Free Spirit " Artist: Jillane Curreen

 When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,  to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.  They are there for the reason you need them to be.  Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.  Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.  Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.  What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.  The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.  

There are many different responses to crisis. Most survivors have intense feelings after a traumatic event but recover from the trauma; others have more difficulty recovering — especially those who have had previous traumatic experiences, who are faced with ongoing stress, or who lack support from friends and family — and will need additional help.

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Re: husband is a quadriplegic due to race bike accident

Peggy,

I read your letter in Bikers Accident Survivor Forum, and my heart goes out to you and to your husband. I know how hard it is to cope sometimes. My older brother is a quad also, so I can relate to your concerns. Below is a Link to Brian Montgomery's Letter in our forum and his picture and link is on the front page of our Website as well. I have talked to Brian and have emailed him periodically through this year. Look over his Website as well and e-mail him, He is wide open to conversation and he has a big sense of humor, I am sure he will give added support...Link to Brians Website is: http://home.earthlink.net/~bdmpastx/
His Email is: bdmpastx@earthlink.net


Another great resourse is: Apparelyzed, This forum has a Spouse and Caregiver section also, Peggy Please if I can be any further help or you want to just chat, holler, ok!!!!
http://www.apparelyzed.com/forums/index.php?

With greatest respect

Garry

Garry Van Kirk
Bikers Accident Survivor Forum
www.bacsuv.com
bikeraccsurvivor@bacsuv.com