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                                               Brother Larry Ritchey                      " Free Spirit " Artist: Jillane Curreen

 When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,  to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.  They are there for the reason you need them to be.  Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.  Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.  Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.  What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.  The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.  

There are many different responses to crisis. Most survivors have intense feelings after a traumatic event but recover from the trauma; others have more difficulty recovering — especially those who have had previous traumatic experiences, who are faced with ongoing stress, or who lack support from friends and family — and will need additional help.

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Re: Need some helpful advice

I left something out. Dont degrade the loser wife in front of him. He does not need that. If the subject comes up try to change the subject and always take care to respect her choice, even if we all know it was wrong. Some people are just not equipped to deal with any outplacement in their lives. I am sure that he loved this woman very much and her loss is like a death to him. Remind him of his life and how much more of it you will be enjoying with him.

Also, you might try a few cycle options on the wheel chair. Chroming out a chair will cost a little but anything that brings a loved part of his life into his new reality should help. I recommend rear view mirrors, emblems, wheel nuts, etc. After all, all proud bikers need awesome wheels, even if they are on a chair.