Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I keep having dreams about him, and these dreams are about us being together still, and they're about things that we've done in the past like went to the movies and stuff. I don't understand why I keep dreaming about him, he's really rude, and he seems like he's moving on and he doesn't care about me

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Brittney,
You are most likely having these dreams about your ex because you still have feelings for him. You probably have not worked through all the emotional pain because of th relationship and your dreams are attempting to assist you to do that. Perhaps the dream is trying to tell you that you need to move on. Your boyfriend in your dream may represent a masculine aspect within your psyche with the ultimate message being 'you need to be strong and move on'.

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but i just don't understand, it's been every night, and these dreams don't seem like they are trying to make me move on, because the dreams make me want him back more, because they have to do with us kissing and stuff.

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Brittney,
Those are wishful desires, you wish you could have him back. But if he treats you rude and doesn't care then your wiser self, that part of you that intuitively knows better, is telling you the truth about his feelings. If he in fact feels that way and treats you that way you surely don't want to hold onto someone who doesn't want you.

Your dreams will state what is true as well as what you wish for. But truth always overrules wishing desires. To go against that would only cause more heartache for you. Listen to that wise voice in your dreams and move on.

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