I am in my sweetheart's bedroom. I look in his drawer and see there is a porno mag. He is in bed with a girl from the magazine. I am saying, "who is this?!", while he is half asleep and she is resting herself by his knees.

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Are there questions about your 'sweetheart' having to do his intimacy? Or could it have to do with your intimacy? Or both? Perhaps there is a need, or desire, for flexibility concerning intimacy.

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*Are there questions about your 'sweetheart' having to do his intimacy? Or could it have to do with your intimacy? Or both? Perhaps there is a need, or desire, for flexibility concerning intimacy.*

Thanks for your reply, Gerard.

Y'know, dating after divorce is quite the puzzle for me. I am learning all over again, and it can be frustrating. Learning the ropes while remaining flexible can be trying at times. The ego wants it's way, even though I understand this is a restructuring, of sorts.

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