
So last night I had a dream I was a guy marrying another guy. I was super happy but nervous. I remember my best friend was helping me get ready and so was cinna from The Hunger Games. I had on a white strapless dress that went to the floor and it was tight around the upper body but it flowed out to the bottom. It had a lace on bottom with flowers and a solid top. My hair was to my ears and curled. I remember my friend was fixing my dress at the bottom and cinna was telling me to not be nervous.I had white roses in my hand. I don't know the guy I was marrying but he has a regular tux on and brown hair. I was about to walk down the aisle when I woke up. What does this mean? I'm 14 so I don't really wanna get married yet and I enjoy beig a girl. I'm also straight.
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Kara,
Trying to determine what is going on in the mind of a 14 year old is not the easiest thing to do. Normally when a girl has dreams of a guy, especially when she is the guy, the dream is addressing masculine aspects {animus} of the dreamer. We all have masculine as well as feminine aspects. For a girl her animus is her inner masculine and would be a set of unconscious masculine attributes and potentials. Examples of these potentials are The animus can endow a woman with assertiveness, courage, strength, vitality, decisiveness, a focused attentiveness, and a desire for achievement.
Having said that my take on the dream is you already have strong masculine aspects and you want to keep those masculine aspects while still being feminine {Cinna having gay tendencies}. The rest of the dream describes normal feminine preferences. You want to be 'regular' while still possessing strong masculine aspects.
Are you the 'tomboy' type? My sense the dream is about possessing masculine tendencies but not wanting to come across as masculine. Cinna {I had to Google Cinna} is someone who possesses gay tendencies but no one is quite sure what he is. Does this fit your personality?
Jerry

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Jerry, I am a super girly girl not a tomboy. My masculine tendencies are attributes I would like to keep them, the few I do have. I don't understand why I had a dream of being a gay guy getting married. I understand the reason why I dreamed I was a guy. I just don't get why I was getting married.
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Kara,
The marriage is symbolic. Bringing together opposites {male and female}. It may represent the union of masculine aspects in yourself. But at your age there may be outside experiences that the dream is attempting to communicate. If there are masculine aspects you are aware of that you wish to incorporate then the dream may be addressing those issues.
Again, trying to figure the mind of someone your age is difficult without having more information about you and your life.
Jerry

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Jerry, Sorry I didn't reply but thank you very much.
You were very helpful.
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