Dear Jerry,
Your response has been very helpful as I think about how my husband and I view the "retirement" years very differently.
I hadn't considered the animus and that being pulled in different directions rings true. Most of your thoughts were right on target and have really opened up this dream for me, Thank you so much.

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Pat,
The 'two' possible meanings to every image/dream is an application of Jungian concept I have found to be a constant truth. The dream will focus on recent waking life experiences and at the same time address 'inner' aspects {masculine/animus} traits/foundations. Usually there is a primary focus on one or the other, often depending on the age of the dreamer {older person's dreams more often focused on reflection and foundation issues}. This is one reason I ask for age when posting a dream. I dare say the issues over retirement disagreements with your husband is a primary issue. But very likely the inner issues concerning the animus also.

Jerry

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