Anonymous,
First, the added info your provided is very relevant to the dream. It helps to explain why these girls were in your dream {you associate aspects about them to your life}. Your dreams are about your emotions and anyone else would be in 'relationship' to those emotions.

Your dream. Dreams reflect the emotional conflicts we have in life. Your recent experience going to Planned Parenthood had a lot to do with the dream because it was a 'weighty' decision that had to do with sex and pregnancy. But more so than that would be the 'weight' you gave to having sex with your bf and feelings about becoming pregnant. You probably still have concerns albeit unconscious about pregnancy. And there may be issues about having sex to begin with. The 'scale' of the concerns may reflect how much you do feel about these issues. The weighing in your dream isn't about how much you weight {wasn't in pounds} but how much weight these issues affect you emotionally. Having to use a plane to get your correct weight could symbolize {dreams have a language of symbol and metaphor} the elevated emotions about these issues {pregnancy and sex}.

Now the girl become a part of the dream. Her eating would represent the consuming emotions about pregnancy. The black makeup probably represents the unconscious concerns that you don't see {eyes with odd designs} consciously. It could be the reasoning for obtaining birth control was a decision not based entirely on rational reasoning {did you do it because of pressure from your bf?}. If so that could add to the emotional conflicts the dream is focused and go to the issue of having sex. Asking advice about getting birth control free didn't free you from the emotional issues. You are actually communicating with yourself {she represents aspects to do with you, in association to her pregnancy condition}. There was/is something you don't 'hear' that needs further explanation {these would be the emotions involved}. She also would represent the consuming emotions and the two issues involved }eating for two}.

The dream is most likely focused on the emotional issues of birth control, pregnancy and sex. Look at all the issues involved and determine how much emotions are involved. Was it a 'weighty' issue{s}? Was there pressure from your bf about having sex? Are you still concerned about getting pregnant? Are there moral issues involved in one or both? Your dreams are attempting to help you resolve these issues. Just as with the immune system for the body, dreams are healing mechanisms for the psyche/psychology. When you learn to understand dreams do have a language of their own, and the functions of dreams, they are not as mysterious as they once seemed to be.

Jerry

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