Perhaps I had this dream because today was a family gathering for someone's B-day party. I stopped attending these gatherings because of the way my sister makes me feel. She sets the tone for others to treat me. It's so hard to explain this to others. My mom gets mad at me for not attending and believes that my sister acts cold to me because I don't go to these gathering. However, I stopped going to the gatherings because my sister acted cold, and I didn't want to feel bad for days afterwards.

I don't know which choice is right. I just know that I feel better when I don't go. Could my dream or mind be telling me that I am making the right choice by not going?

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Amy,
I don't see anything in the dream that focuses on a decision whether to go or not to go. The family at the hospital could be describing the conflicts you have with them {as well as with each other}. Did your problems with breathing coincide with the decision about going? If there is that much stress associated with going and you know if you do attend there will be issues and conflict, I would not go. Until you find a way to resolve these issues with your family {all would have to make a tremendous effort} then you will probably suffer a lot of stress when having to be in contact with them. I would work on the issues you have that are in conflict, any conflicts about yourself that would keep you from being able to work things out with family. You can only change yourself. Your family will have to work out their issues. If they can not then it may be necessary to keep a distance from them {if possible} until there is a change all around. Let them know how you feel. That may make it worse but by expressing yourself you take a big step in resolving your own inner issues.

Jerry

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