Ken,
My sense of the dreams are they are addressing issues with your current relationship that is breaking up, and the underlying reasons for why it is ending. There is something from earlier life that has caused barriers to having the relationship you need/seek. The part that might be most relevant is 'your mother being ahead of you{us}' which may point to aspects of the mother relationship and your current ending relationship. What are the reasons for the breakup? Could there be unconscious associations to your mother that have become emotionally charged in the current relationship? There may be unconscious barriers getting in the way of the relationship.

Jerry

Age & Gender & Location {Required}: 70 Altoona, Fl