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Dreams are a succession of images, actions and sensations that occur involuntarily in the mind primarily during the REM stage of sleep. Dreams are unbiased, spontaneous products of the unconscious, outside the control of conscious will. The act of dreaming is physical but the contents of dreams is psychological. They are NATURAL expressions of the dreamer's emotional/personal life illustrating experiences that possess strong emotional energies. Although there are literal applications in dreams the primarily language is symbolic, metaphorical of the dreamer's emotional energies.
  • 1. Dreams are about the emotions, emotional energies of the person who is dreaming. They offer advice and a deeper understanding of our waking life as well as the foundations for the emotional energies of the dreamer.

  • 2. The language of dreams is symbolic, but also with literal applications {literal waking experinces}. The symbolic images and actions are metaphors for the patterns or motifs for the dreamer's emotional/psychological/physical life. Every character in a dream is a different aspect of an unacknowledged aspect of the dreamer and/or a prevalent situation in the person's life involving actual persons/experiences {dreams will address both aspects}.

  • 3. The purpose and function of dreams is to guide the conscious self to achieve wholeness and offer a solution to the problems in waking life. Solutions to problems and conflicts from everyday life, as well as the deeper underlying issues, 'emotional injuries' that stem from the foundations of the dreamer {early life experiences and trama experiences in life}.
    ---Dreams attempt to reveal the authentic emotions and feelings that are often concealed from the conscious mind.
    ---Dreams compensate for conscious attitudes and personality traits that are out of balance.

  • 4. Dreams are intentional. Nature provides us with dreams to understand and help heal emotional conflicts/issues. Just as the body has the immune system to heal and protect, the psych{ology} has the dream.

  • 5. Dreams possess 'Archteypal' representations. Archetypes are universal, original patterns and images that derive from the collective unconscious and are the psychic counterpart of instinct. An archetype is an inherited tendency of the human mind to form representations of mythological motifs-representations of the symbolic images/actions without losing their basic emotional pattern. Dreams and mythology share the same archetypal images, myths as illustrations of the universal patterns and dreams as illustrations of personal patterns.

  • 6. All dreams have at least two meanings or applications. One is the symbolic representation, metaphorical of the emotional energies, and the second being a literal application where a person, place or experience is addressing a real life experience. More about this in the Basics of Dream Analysis section at Power of Dreams

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    i dreamt that i was in bed with my husband, but we were not alone in the room, my cousin was there. We started having sex under the covers and my cousin then left. After we had both been satisfied I began giving him oral sex which I truly enjoyed.I think what concerned me was that i initiated a change in position so that he was kneeling over me while i lay on the bed on my back. We contniued until he came and i took in all of him and his semen. When we were done i smiled like a satisfied chessire cat. Then i got up and went to make him a cup of tea. When i came back with the tea he was curled in a fetal position sleeping. I placed the tea on the bedside table and sat in the chair sipping my tea and watching him sleep.

    Nb: I am not married in real life.

    Age & Gender & Location {Required}: 33, st.lucia

    Have You Posted Before? Date of Last Post {Use Search and Your Post Name to Help Find Last Post} female

    Re: sex

    Janine,
    The sexual content of the dream may be addressing some issues you are dealing with concerning sex. If you are in fact having such issues consider that as a part of the dream message.

    If is something other than sex then the possibilities are most likley addressing some issues to do with inner conflicts {or even perhaps other issues as well as sex}. If this is the case then it probably involves masculine/feminine conflicts. In your dream there seems to be a need or desire for a changing of positions. This may apply to waking life circumstances or even inner developments within your own psyche. His being in a fetal position may indicate some feelings that are still undeveloped. This too may apply to him as well as/or your own psyche.

    Your cousin in the dream is most certainly symbolic, unless of course there were such actual events. You did not state the gender of your cousin {male or female} but in any case it would represent some related issues having to do with your masculine aspects, or your husband, or both.
    Oral sex could very well symbolize communication between male and female {the joke where oral sex is described as something more than just something you talk about?}. Perhaps there are problems with communication between you and your husband. The fetal position may represent a lack of 'finishing the job'. While you sip your tea {a desire for satisfaction} he is sleeping.

    When interpreting dreams I can understand the perimeters of what may be happening in your life. But the actual experiences only you can know. Dream symbols could be addressing actual waking experiences in your current life or they could symbolize aspects of your own psyche {the masculine aspects trying to unite with the feminine aspects}. Often the dream is doing both. The only way to determine which it is can only be discerned by you, you know about your real life experiences while I can only speculate.

    Compare what I have given to your life and let me know your thoughts. Perhaps we can find which of the above applies to you.

    Gerard

    Age & Gender & Location {Required}: 55 Murfreesboro, Tn.

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    Re: sex

    Hi Gerard,

    I do not think you saw my note, that i am not married in real life nor am i in a relationship. So it seems that the other interpretation of the dream is more applicable. I seem to be having a battle reconciling the male and female aspects of my pysche.And there is a need to change positions, to move more comfortably into the female aspects and to rely with confidence on the guidances i receive from my female side. My masculine side has great issue with it and as i go deeper spiritually, the conflict seems to intensify.

    I found it really interesting that you saw my sipping the tea as the need for satisfaction. Because although after the sex, my smile was like that of a cat who had just lapped a bowl of milk. When i was sitting there sipping the tea my expression was not one of love or satisfaction. It was more of a resolute expression, not sadness just resignation, finality. I do not know if that makes sense to you.

    There is one other view i have been considering as well: Could it also be my relationship with the male in real life? My constant need to give in to their needs and satisfy them which may be in conflict with my desire to control them.

    My cousin is female.Let me know what you think.

    Age & Gender & Location {Required}: 33, st.lucia

    Have You Posted Before? Date of Last Post {Use Search and Your Post Name to Help Find Last Post} female

    Re: sex

    Janine,
    Yes, there may be that conflict having to do with males. It may also have to do with the inner conflict. Both need to be given attention.

    As for your cousin. Are there aspects about her that may contribute to this aspect of the dream or you identify with that may provide insights to this other aspect about yourself. She was in the room while you were having sex {metaphorical of course}. And the relationship to your spiritual search. Is there a relationship there?

    Gerard

    Age & Gender & Location {Required}: 55 Murfreesboro, Tn.

    Have You Posted Before? Date of Last Post {Use Search and Your Post Name to Help Find Last Post} Male


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