Hi Gerard,

In reference to your questions from my last post "Party"...as far as my relationship with my father...I havent seen or spoken to my biological father in over 24 years, I did however have my Step father in my life and we were really close. He passed away three years ago and I am still trying to deal with that...and in regards to relationships, for some reason I used to push guys away that got too close and that's the reason for my failed relationships....I hope that these answers will be able to help you...

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T. Gray,
Looking back at your original post I now believe #1 and #2 may have to do with the relationship with your father and step father. The disappearance of #1 is because he disappeared from your life. The disappearance of #2 is because he passed away.
And #3 would represent those men you push away, possibly due to the influence of the relationship with your biological father. You may have developed a mistrust of men in general, albeit unconscious.
M may symbolize MEN. You are not sure who to trust. Your mother would symbolize your intuitive self, your inner feminine wisdom. She, it, knows how to put these things into perspective.

Perhaps your psyche is telling you that there are those men you need to be wary of but you also need to get past the mistrust you have for men. You can do this by using that intuitive aspect. As Luke Skywalker would pit it, "use the force", that intuitive mind of inner wisdom, and practical experience to make such decisions in life.

Gerard

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Hi Gerard,

I just wanted to thank you for taking the time to respond to my posts...I really appreciate it and your thoughts really help put some things into perspective for me.

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