To JC my best friend died over a year ago hence the title. Her leg was swollen twice the normal size,dispite me trying to get her to have it checked out. I usually drove her where she needed to go as she had no license. In previous dreams I had of her she's in her room, looking very happy but she won't let me sit on her bed, instead I have to sit next to her in a chair. Just as I sit down in the chair I wake up.

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Hi Denise

Thanks for replying,

well I am not sure where to start - the common theme in the dreams you relate is 'difficulty getting close' / 'wanting to be close, but not being allowed (given permission) to do so' ,,,,

It is reasonable to consider whether these dreams relate to part of grieving, or something else - counselling may help in this regard if you think this might be what the dreams relate to.
The other issue is that dreams often have more thatn one meaning, and that what is going on inside (as reflected in the dreams) is often a mirror of what is going on outside - and turning that around - what is going on in outer waking life is often a mirror of what is going on inside for us ,,,,it jsut seems to work that way.

So where to ??
- if you feel any of this clicks for you then it is probably on the right track.
- If the dreams change nature then you are probably on the right track.
- If the dream persists then you are probably not on the right track and need to reconsider and look at other meanings.
Usually how things shange will give a clue.

Stay in touch
JC

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