Ok Let's put this one to bed shall we.

You are sitting reading a book on a park bench( for example) someone comes along, hits you over the head and steals your handbag ( or whatever). This is an actual event and not projection. You have NOT projected 'a mugger' onto someone, a fellow human being. We all have choice - they have CHOSEN to do this to you. For this instant, and it is only an example, they have CHOSEN to favour their will over your own - you have not projected and made it happen.

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This situation includes no interaction between the two people (until the thief strikes). Is avoiding all interaction with others the only way to be sure we're not projecting?

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Even if you interact with someone, that doesn't give them the right to choose to exercise their will over yours for your negative effect and that is not projection.

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Of course it doesn't.

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