Hermna,
Perhaps a 'refresher course in Jungian psyche will help you get a better grasp of how to apply my interpretation. You can do that by starting with my page A Simple Guide to Dreams.

As to your response. It is not the need for conflict but the existence of emotion conflicts in your life. Being able to show emotions is a 'feminine aspect'. The inability to show them has a reason, most often the roots being from childhood. It is not so much to express intense anger or sadness as it is to confront those emotions that has its roots in past experiences. When you do that you will be able to express what you feel. That is where emotional healing begins.

As for the dream about the one eyed fat girl. She would be you, and ugly aspect, perhaps pointing to the inability to 'see' things with both eyes. The make up would be what you are covering up, emotionally. When you begin to recognize there are these 'covered up emotions' you are better able to see yourself as you really are and not the person who is unwilling/unable to recognize those emotions.

Jerry

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