Chica,
My sense of the dream is there are inner and outer issues to do with masculine aspects/male relationships. The crackhead guy in your dream may point to an inner realization your bf is a 'user' and you feel {at least at times} you are being used. Instead of taking actions to remedy this you are passive and let it go. The rape would point to inner resentful feelings of being used as well as resentment toward yourself for allowing it to happen {which goes to personality traits and developed attitudes}. Rape isn't a real rape but symbolic of being taken advantage of, resentful feelings.

There also seems to be something in the dream that points to one reason for a reluctance to do or say anything. Intimacy, either sexual or/and a deep need for affection would be a barrier in expressing your true feelings. The unknown/unnoticed man would be your animus/masculine self, a lack of strength/will to express your true feelings because the need for this intimacy {on the bed I knew I was in trouble}. This is one major reason you stay in the relationship. The underlying reasons {the deeper issues of personality and attitudes} would be the inner aspect the dream is attempting to communicate. If you go back to childhood and look experiences in relationships {with your mother/father/you} and you will probably see intimacy issues.

You may be at a point where you realize you need to do something. In the dream you manage to get to the door and swing it open. This would represent opening up to the issues in the relationship {and a deeper need to examine the inner intimacy issues}. 'Both of you falling to the ground' would represent bot the inner and outer issues 'falling back'/going back to your foundations/early life experiences/influences {childhood}. 'If' and when you get the strength to realize you need to make changes {relationships} you will kick your bf {symbolically} in the head as well as kicking yourself for the mentality of letting him use you.

The above may not fit perfectly in your real life but from experience I believe it will be close. The bf relationship as well as the father relationship may have a lot in common.

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Jerry

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