Im sorry Anne we cant help you to let go of your loved ones. Only you can make the decision of if you want to let someone go or not. sure we can sit here and type about all the bad stuff that is involved with being DID like watching loved ones with this mental disorder act out their pain of being abused and not be able to do anything about it, and we can type about all the good stuff that comes with being DID like people with DID are very creative and can multitask better than people who do not have DID simply because they switch from alter to alter and each alter contains their own and sometimes shared memories about how to do things. we can also sit here and yell at you the words "get rid of him" but only you can decide what to do for yourself.

Any therapist, psychiatrist or psychologist near you can help you to understand and make your own decisions based on your own personal experiences and what is right for you. To locate these professionals they can be found in your local phone book under marriage and family counseling, mental health, community resources, psychiatrists and psychologists.

good luck in what ever you decide to do.