Dear Alton, i am sorry no one has answered your plea for help i just found this forum. unfortunately i think everyone here is looking for answers but have none for anyone else. maybe some other forum can help? we are all like your boyfriend, lost and confused. i have been dealing with this for 10 years now i am told. i have found no one to help. there is only one way for me to put an end to this nightmare. i think about it everyday. i digress. try a different forum. all the experts in this field only write books and speeches. they never actually help anyone. believe me, i have begged them. they just want fame and riches. they don't care about the people they use to get rich off of. try other forums. there are some really nice ones. i peersonally don't remember their names... that is someone elses job i guess. someone may help. God bless you, marc

PS i don't know what happened to the owner of this site. she shhould have at least responded. maybe she is experiencing a set back. i lose weeks and months and years at a time. that may be her case.

Hi, I just found this site. and I do not know if you are still in contact with this man. If you are still in contact with him he needs help and needs someone who is compassonate and understanding someone who can help get to the root some how and help him piece him self together. I guess I have it i just went through a very uncomfortable roll. It scared the day lights out of me and i was waking up shaking and now the slighter noise bothers me. the hospital was no help at all. I just found a phycologist ( pardon my spelling I was never good at it) Who uses emdr and another modaity. and he seem compassoniate. I hope you can talk him into getting help because I believe it can be cured. Take care and good luck