Hi, I just found this site. and I do not know if you are still in contact with this man. If you are still in contact with him he needs help and needs someone who is compassonate and understanding someone who can help get to the root some how and help him piece him self together. I guess I have it i just went through a very uncomfortable roll. It scared the day lights out of me and i was waking up shaking and now the slighter noise bothers me. the hospital was no help at all. I just found a phycologist ( pardon my spelling I was never good at it) Who uses emdr and another modaity. and he seem compassoniate. I hope you can talk him into getting help because I believe it can be cured. Take care and good luck