Marzi,
You didn't provide your age which can be important.

The first dream looks to be addressing 'stinging/hurtful' comments/experiences made to you or by you. Something that happened before the dream that may point to personality traits ingrained in your psyche {early life experiences/influences that caused you to have the personality you have}. Either you are easily hurt by comments made by other people or you have a tendency to say things that are hurtful. Your brother and mother may be 'literally' involved in a particular experience {relevant to the dream and your psyche} but one or the other {especially your brother} may symbolize aspects of your personality {animus/masculine qualities}. In that manner your brother would represent the ability to severe the attitude you possess to do with hurtful remarks {made to you or by you}. The involvement of your mother may point to an exact experience {comments made by you to your mother or vice versa}. Her being in the dream may also point to similar qualities the two of you share.

Look to days before the dream and see what experiences you had that involved 'stinging/hurtful' comments. It would be something that had emotional energy and being such would either point to how hurtful comments affect you or an attitude you possess to say hurtful things. You may be affected by 'biting' comments more than you should be {you possess very sensitive feelings} or you tend to make 'singing/hurtful' comments to others {because of personality traits}. Personality traits you need to resolve {requiring masculine qualities of discipline and abilities}.

The Second Dream
Continuing from the first dream I sense there are parts of you that are disguising who you really are {inside}. Consciously you are one person with negative qualities but inside you are entirely different. But you are having difficulties being this true self. You may have refused help on these issues from qualified people. There is one particular aspect that may need your attention more than others. You lack the 'materials' {discipline/will power?} to be your true self and have to 'cheat' to create an impression to fool others. You are motivated by something beyond the normal control of your abilities. That could point to personality issues. Or it could be something else. Do you have problems with 'substance abuse' {illegal substance}?

The second dream seems to be addressing overall personality traits while the first dream touches on that but may involve actual experiences {stinging comments}. If I knew your age it would be helpful. The first dream seems to point to a younger person but the second an older adult. Age does matter when analyzing dreams and can detour a correct interpretation by not knowing the age of the dreamer.

Jerry

Age & Gender & Location {Required}: 64 Cocoa, Fl

Have You Posted Before? Date of Last Post {Use Search and Your Post Name to Help Find Last Post} Male

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